Many People have been asking me, “Are you teaching men to be in their integrity and solid in their power, or are you teaching men seduction?”

My first reaction is:

Hmm, ahh what? I am not quite sure if there is any difference?

Than I let the question sit with me and I contemplated on it further and deeper.

The deeper I think about it, the clearer it gets that there is no difference, and that seduction is a very essential part of being a fully integrated man.

A peacock can grow crazy, flashy 6 foot long feathers for no apparent reason other than to seduce the chick, and to be a full participant in the mating dance and no one makes him wrong for it. A woman can spend two hours putting on make up and wearing a push-up bra and no one makes her wrong for it either.

And when a man wants to feel empowered to approach beautiful women in a solid, smooth, seductive way, now the whole world comes down on him for doing that and for not “just being yourself”. Guess what!  He has been told “just be yourself” for the last 20-30-40 years and it has not been working. Can one not be himself? Most women express the desire for a powerful, confident man to approach them and when he endeavors to be that man, all of a sudden he is not worthy for some reason.

So imagine, just for a second if you may, what your life would be like if you were that confident that you can have any woman you want to the point where you do not have to prove it to yourself, because you are confident in your seduction?!

For all the women out there!

Do you have any idea of how fucking terrifyingly scary you are to 99% of men?

I have had many men tell me in these exact words:
“I have had bullets fly by my head and you are asking me to stand in front of this woman fully vulnerable and just look her in the eye without saying anything?  This will be, by far, the scariest thing I have ever done in my life!”

Tell me now, how can a man be fully in his integrity and power if he can carry a gun, make money, fly an airplane, or anything you can think of but he cannot look a woman straight in the eye and just be present with her?

Call it seduction, call it confidence, call it anything you want, the majority of men have the same problem, they are afraid (scared shitless) to approach a woman they are attracted to.  I have met and know a ton of powerful men that give me chills up my spine from total respect and honor for their achievements in life, and the moment a beautiful woman walks in the room they become as small as a fucking peanut.

So, I will answer the question that I have been asked over and over again by different people:  The answer is Yes!
~ Yes, I am teaching men how to be fully integrated in their integrity and power.
~ Yes, I am teaching men Seduction.

And if you are curious to know how I teach men to be fully integrated in their power by using seduction and the reflection of women you are welcome to come experience it for yourself in the next workshop I do!

In the mean time, I am sending you love and compassion
~Hristiyan

Here we are breaking down another amazing scene from another amazing movie.

This time we are exploring the power of persistence so nicely demonstrated by Ethan Hawke in the amazing movie “New Your I Love YOU”

I personally really enjoyed this movie if you have not yet seen it you should definitely  do so and in a mean time enjoy this scene.

Here is some thought from me about seduction and my personal definition on seduction!

Make sure to tell me what you think of it and what you want more of

Love

Last week I broke down the seduction scene in the movie “Vicky Cristina Barcelona” and to my surprise, I got incredibly positive responses from it.

People have been emailing me telling me how much they got out of it, and I’ve been asked to do some more!

So this week, I decided to do what is probably the most famous Pick Up scene in a movie:  The scene with the cigarette girl from the movie “The Aviator.”

So here is the scene:

Enjoy and do not forget to let me know what you think of it and what you got out of it.

~Hristiyan

Seducing a Woman on Stage Without Using Words! Continued…

If you have not seen the movie “Vicky Cristina Barcelona” and you want to learn about seduction, you should watch it. Continued…

I have been deeply impacted by this poem.

It was very powerful for me and had me contemplating its words for the last week.

There for I wanted to share it with you in hope that it may have the some powerful and transformational effect on you.

Here it is:

When a fairly spiritual male friend of mine who had finally found and was deepening into committed relationship with his soul mate confided in me he was thinking of being single again, and in the next breath expressed his latest idea for raising consciousness worldwide, I wrote this poem.

Continued…

Appreciation is the secret to what you want in life.

Appreciation is the key to transformation.
Appreciation is the key to happiness.
Appreciation is the key to having fulfilling relationships.
Appreciation is the key to seduction.

It’s such a simple concept, but so hard to put into action at the same time, isn’t it?

The other day I had the privilege of listening to a small and private talk by Eben Pagan.  He ended the talk with the words:

“The longest journey is the journey to this moment.”

I have always wondered about this whole idea of the “Pursuit of Happiness”?

How could you possibly pursue something that can only by found in this moment? Continued…

You may or may not know that creating attraction with a sexy female can be an easy and effortless experience.

You may think that to create attraction you have to drive a cool car, have a lot of money or be super cool.

You may think that you have to learn a lot of pick up routines, pick up lines, and have the right thing to say.

The truth of the matter is that none of these things matter if you are not really embodying what you are saying, and what you are doing.

You can walk up to any woman and tell her how you are going to blow her mind in the bedroom, but if you are not embodying it then she will not take you seriously.

One thing that works with creating attraction is polarity.

What is polarity?

You know how a magnet works, don’t you?

It has a + and -

Polarity.

If you get two magnets and face the two + polls of the magnet they will repel each other.  If you face the + and – polls then you get attraction.  
There are a ton of ways to create bigger and bigger polarity between you and the hot lady that you want.

Here is an example of a tool that will help you create attraction by using the concept of polarity.  This tool is a lot of fun and very powerful, so use it wisely.

Watch this video to find out what it is:

Learn How to Tie Up & Turn On a Woman from Hristiyan on Vimeo.

Hey,

Today I did a really fun interview with my friend Phil Cisneros who has been a successful business coach for over 25 years.

If you haven’t had a chance to learn more about what I’m passionate about and what sets me apart from other dating coaches, check out this FREE, fun, and informative interview!

We had a great conversation where I share some of my secrets to being successful with women, including how to be more confident with women, how to know when she’s attracted to you, and what it takes to have seductive presence.