Many People have been asking me, “Are you teaching men to be in their integrity and solid in their power, or are you teaching men seduction?”
My first reaction is:
Hmm, ahh what? I am not quite sure if there is any difference?
Than I let the question sit with me and I contemplated on it further and deeper.
The deeper I think about it, the clearer it gets that there is no difference, and that seduction is a very essential part of being a fully integrated man.
A peacock can grow crazy, flashy 6 foot long feathers for no apparent reason other than to seduce the chick, and to be a full participant in the mating dance and no one makes him wrong for it. A woman can spend two hours putting on make up and wearing a push-up bra and no one makes her wrong for it either.
And when a man wants to feel empowered to approach beautiful women in a solid, smooth, seductive way, now the whole world comes down on him for doing that and for not “just being yourself”. Guess what! He has been told “just be yourself” for the last 20-30-40 years and it has not been working. Can one not be himself? Most women express the desire for a powerful, confident man to approach them and when he endeavors to be that man, all of a sudden he is not worthy for some reason.
So imagine, just for a second if you may, what your life would be like if you were that confident that you can have any woman you want to the point where you do not have to prove it to yourself, because you are confident in your seduction?!
For all the women out there!
Do you have any idea of how fucking terrifyingly scary you are to 99% of men?
I have had many men tell me in these exact words:
“I have had bullets fly by my head and you are asking me to stand in front of this woman fully vulnerable and just look her in the eye without saying anything? This will be, by far, the scariest thing I have ever done in my life!”
Tell me now, how can a man be fully in his integrity and power if he can carry a gun, make money, fly an airplane, or anything you can think of but he cannot look a woman straight in the eye and just be present with her?
Call it seduction, call it confidence, call it anything you want, the majority of men have the same problem, they are afraid (scared shitless) to approach a woman they are attracted to. I have met and know a ton of powerful men that give me chills up my spine from total respect and honor for their achievements in life, and the moment a beautiful woman walks in the room they become as small as a fucking peanut.
So, I will answer the question that I have been asked over and over again by different people: The answer is Yes!
~ Yes, I am teaching men how to be fully integrated in their integrity and power.
~ Yes, I am teaching men Seduction.
And if you are curious to know how I teach men to be fully integrated in their power by using seduction and the reflection of women you are welcome to come experience it for yourself in the next workshop I do!
In the mean time, I am sending you love and compassion
~Hristiyan


